It's Not Them, It's You
We all have that annoying friend, who, when someone is driving us crazy, asks us, “what can you learn from the person who’s driving you crazy?” Brace yourself: I am that annoying friend. It’s always easier to conclude that our problems are external to us. If someone grates on our nerves, it’s because there is something wrong with THEM. But what happens when we play out that “they-are-the-problem” belief? For example, a colleague always complains to you. You can’t stand it, so